Hey I’m Tani,
I am a wife to Drake and “Mom” to 4 wonderful children on the island of O’ahu. My passions include singing, drinking lattes, raising children, & attempting to love the Lord and others well.
Why the Mom Blog?
Being a mother can be difficult and no one should have to do it alone. For me personally, experiencing motherhood alongside other moms makes the challenges motherhood brings so much more bearable.
Mom life is not easy despite what social media tells you. I am very fortunate to have so many wise mamas to seek out for advice, comfort, solitude, and help. However; when I look to my peers, I notice many do not have that same luxury. Many of my other mom friends know only a handful of other mothers and most of them do not hang out regularly.
That’s why it is my dream is to have a community for mamas young and old, wise and worried, confident and struggling, to share in the blessings and hardships motherhood brings together. A space beyond distance and nap times, where we can share the wins and the losses.
Not a club where we complain about our children or spouses. But a place of fruitfulness where we can support and encourage one another and feel a little less lonely in this journey.
Here’s What I’ve Got
Unfortunately there is not “how to” book on motherhood and I am no expert. But I am here to share all the messes I’ve made. Like everything in life we live and we learn, but maybe we can skip some of those hard parts with a little help from one another.
Every mother, child, and situation is different, but that’s what makes it such a special experience. What I can offer is my motherhood journey, whether you totally agree with everything or absolutely nothing or fall somewhere in between, I am glad you’re here. It is not always pretty and I will continue to make mistakes, but it is real and it is my unraveled motherhood (you get it?)
I can’t wait to hear yours!